femme on a mission

In which I contradict myself by telling you what to wear, and then telling you to wear whatever the fuck you want.

My journey to embracing femme

Femme on a Mission is growing – check out the new fun things to do!

Because sometimes we need to see people face our same battles and make it out alive.

I cried.

“I stood up, mumbled ‘F*ck it’ under my breath, and walked into the crowd of dancing lesbians.”

Femme on a Mission Vlog: Watch people react to my super gay t-shirt!

plus putting life in perspective. Here’s the CNN video you must watch. So what should I do with my ugly-ass hair? And more importantly, what should we do about the discrimination in this country that just won’t seem to go away? Related Articles femme on a mission vlog: how i came out to my mother

Hi everyone! How are you? Are you ready? Let’s talk feminism! It’s gotten a bad reputation over the years; I know growing up in my family it was certainly a dirty word. Mainstream media tells us that there is no need for feminism anymore, that the battle for gender equality has now been won, men […]

These are ten things I feel confident in taking away from spending my life watching Mad Men at the expense of my blog and/or health and/or academic future. I know it is fiction but, as they say, art imitates life or vice versa or something. Either way it feels necessary to analyze what I did […]

A new PL for today! (Catch up on all the others here.) Who: Elly Jackson, a.k.a La Roux Why she’s beautiful inside and out: La Roux is one half of a British recording duo that makes really fun dance songs, like “Bulletproof” and “I’m Not Your Toy.” One of her hits, called “Quicksand,” has some […]

The old “lesbian sleeps with a man trick”? Not cool.

Beth Ditto: “I think ‘cool’ is probably the dumbest word in the world. I think the idea of being ‘cool’ is kind of ridiculous.. I think being nice is the coolest thing you can do.”

In heteronormative society, is femme the “acceptable” type of lesbian? If there is any aspect of my lesbian identity that my parents are happy about, it’s the fact that I am femme (not that they are aware of that word). Their main concern upon my coming out was that I wouldn’t start “dressing like a […]

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